I am one of eight children. My littlest sister could never pronounce ‘Gabrielle', so she called me ‘Ral' instead and the name has since stuck.

It was probably being one of so many that first helped me realise the power of storytelling. It was a great way to gain some attention from my parents.

During my 20s, storytelling's power was reinforced while sitting in pubs with my mates. We would spend the night sharing stories, fuelled by alcohol and '80s music — which was (and still is) a magical combination.

This obsession with storytelling (not '80s music … okay, maybe a little) continued into adult life and my career in a senior leadership role at National Australia Bank. It was here that I realised stories could be used for good, and for business — and, more importantly, for the good of the business!

Since that time, I have made it my mission to teach others how to share stories in business to communicate more effectively and authentically. I've worked with thousands of high-profile leaders and companies from around the world to help them get real with their communications. These companies have included Amazon, Shell, Caltex, Ericsson, Accenture, EY, VISA, Uber and International Committee Red Cross (to name-drop a few).

I might have failed my final year of English, but I didn't let that hold me back. This is my fifth book and my old English teacher Mrs Bennetts would be proud and no doubt extremely surprised of this effort. My other books include Stories for Work: The Essential Guide to Business Storytelling (Wiley, 2017), Ignite: Real Leadership, Real Talk, Real Results (Wiley, 2015) Storytelling for Job Interviews (self-published, 2016), and Hooked: How Leaders Connect, Engage and Inspire with Storytelling (Wiley, 2013).

I hold a master's degree in management and leadership from Swinburne University, and an associate diploma in education and training from the University of Melbourne. I'm also a graduate of the Harvard Kennedy School of Executive Education in both the Art and Practice of Leadership Development, and Women and Power: Leadership in a New World — and I have the T-Shirt and coffee mug to prove it.

My obsession for bringing authenticity to the way business people communicate led me to found Jargon Free Fridays in 2016 (www.jargonfreefridays.com). This is a fun way to raise awareness about the consequence of jargon and acronyms.

I live in Melbourne with my husband, Steve, two teenage daughters, Alex and Jess, and Digger the dog — though often I'm found in the veggie patch on my holiday property at Bermagui in New South Wales.

I think (no, I know) the world would be a better place if there was more manure in vegetable gardens and less in business. Don't you agree?

Ral

For some reason this book felt like the hardest book I have ever written ... maybe it's just the recency of pain. Like when you finish a long run or give birth. But I am so proud of the end result of this book and I would not have been able to achieve this without the help from the following people.

Firstly, the always brilliant (and sometimes brutal) Kelly Irving who is an amazing editor. This is the third book Kelly has edited for me and her feedback and suggestions are always insightful. Like a personal trainer, her tough love and guidance always takes my writing to a higher level.

I would also like to thank the team at Wiley for their ongoing support in me. Special shout out to Lucy Raymond, Ingrid Bond and Charlotte Duff for their guidance and suggestions. It's always a pleasure to work with them.

Massive gratitude to Kieran Flanagan who was the inspiration for the cover design and for Matt Church, Janine Garner and Dan Gregory who gave me the courage to go with a photo of me on the cover. I seriously had to get out of my own way there.

Speaking of which, Oli Sansom is a magical photographer who is not only a pleasure to work with but beautifully captured the look and feel I was after. He made me scrub up OK.

Another really big thanks to my Executive Manager and friend Elise Turner who basically kept the show running while I buried myself away writing for days and weeks on end. Every time I went looking for a distraction, which was fairly often, she reverted to her school teacher days and I was told to keep writing.

Special thanks to my family, Steve, Alex and Jess who give me not only the space to write but often some pretty good material to write about. And if I don't mention Digger the dog I get in trouble, so thanks to Digger for keeping me company in the office, even though he seriously stunk at times.

This book would not be possible without all the people that kindly gave me their time and stories to feature in this book ... and quite a few others I interviewed that due to a change of direction in some parts, didn't end up in the book. I thank you for allowing me to share your stories, insights and opinions.

Finally, thanks to you, the reader. It is only through people like you that have the courage to be you and lead true that we will have genuine and real communication.

This is just what the world needs, isn't it? Another bloody book on communication and leadership.

Well, I might not be the best salesperson in the world, but let me explain why I wrote this book and why you need to read it.

I have worked in business for over 35 years (which does make me feel a tad old …). For a big chunk of that time, I have helped leaders communicate more effectively and be the absolute best that they can be: authentic, insightful, impactful, influential … just plain real.

I know from personal experience how hard it is to work for, and work with, leaders who talk rubbish and never do what they say they do. (I don't think I am on my own here.) We are crying out for leaders who are authentic and speak in a way that is real.

This kind of authentic leadership and real communication is needed now, more than ever.

Why? Times have changed, and continue to change at a rapid rate (it's not slowing down!). With this change comes a whole new set of phrases, acronyms and jargon that is confusing and, at times, overwhelming. We are also more cynical of the world at large and, hence, more demanding of what we expect from the companies and leaders we work for.

So in part I of this book, we will explore the decline of trust in today's world and our confusion about knowing what or whom to trust. We'll also look at the evolving expectations of employees and customers, and why they are crying out for us to communicate to them in a more transparent and genuine way. And we'll examine the increasing amount of corporate jargon that we use and how that can be disengaging and isolating. Finally, we will look at our addiction to acronyms and how that can lead to inefficient communication and, in many cases, miscommunication.

In part II, you'll discover some practical ways to ensure you communicate concisely by putting your audience first. We will look at the need to include emotion and stories in your communication if you want to form a genuine connection with employees and customers. You'll also learn how to prepare your content so it's more engaging and visual, helping you deliver messages with impact — no matter if you're writing an email, talking one-to-one, holding a team meeting, pitching to a client or speaking on stage to a large audience.

Then in part III, we'll dive into what it really means to be an authentic leader. Through case studies and stories, you will experience what it looks like to have the clarity to use real words, and the courage to deal with what is real and admit when you have stuffed up. We will look in depth at leaders who have congruence in their values and actions, and who show what is real to them and the people they lead.

Throughout the book I've included real-life examples, stories and case studies from my clients as well as high-profile companies. And at the end of all chapters in parts II and III, I've included ‘Get REAL now' pointers and tips to help you apply the information provided to your communication and leadership. These examples and pointers will help you to see what real leadership looks like in practice and, ultimately, how you can get real with your employees, customers and colleagues.

We are all crying out for real communication and authentic leadership.

This book will show you why and how.