Understanding Your Dog For Dummies®

 

by Stanley Coren and Sarah Hodgson

 

 

 

About the Authors

Stanley Coren is best known to the public for his popular books on dogs and on general psychological issues. However, within the scientific world, he’s also a highly respected scientist, a Professor of Psychology at the University of British Columbia, and a Fellow of the Royal Society of Canada.

His engaging writing style and his broad knowledge about the behavior of dogs and people have made his books The Intelligence of Dogs, Why We Love the Dogs We Do, What Do Dogs Know?, How to Speak Dog, The Pawprints of History, How Dogs Think, Why Do Dogs Have Wet Noses?, and Why Does My Dog Do That? all bestsellers. Roger Caras, President of the ASPCA, and himself a best-selling author of dog books, noted “Stanley Coren has an incredible gift — the ability to take the most complex matters and make it all seem so simple and clear.” Perhaps this is why Coren was named Writer of the Year by the International Positive Dog Training Association and is a sought-after contributor to a number of national dog and pet magazines, including Pets Magazine, Modern Dog, AnimalSense, Dog and Puppy Basics, and AKC Gazette.

Many professional associations have recognized Coren’s work with service dogs, and he’s received awards from several major police dog organizations, including the California Canine Narcotic Dog Association and the British Columbia Police Canine Association. His work with and knowledge of dogs has often caught the attention of the media, and he’s been the subject of feature articles in People Magazine, USA Today, Time Magazine, Maclean’s, US News & World Report, New York Times, Los Angeles Times, San Francisco Chronicle, Washington Post, and others. His affable manner has also made him a popular guest with the broadcast media, and he’s been featured on numerous television programs, including Oprah, Larry King Live, Dateline, 20/20, Maurie Povich, Good Morning America, Charlie Rose, and the Today Show. He currently hosts the national TV series Good Dog! in Canada.

Sarah Hodgson, president of Simply Sarah Incorporated, has been a trainer of dogs and their people in Westchester, New York, and Southern Connecticut for more than 20 years. She’s the author of eight dog-training books, including Puppies For Dummies, Dog Tricks For Dummies, Puppies Raising & Training Diary For Dummies, Teach Yourself Visually Dog Training, You and Your Puppy (co-authored with James DeBitetto), DogPerfect, 2nd Edition, PuppyPerfect, and Miss Sarah’s Guide to Etiquette for Dogs & Their People. In addition, Sarah has produced two videos, patented a dog training leash (the Teaching Lead), and invented many other products to simplify the shared lives of dogs and people.

Sarah is frequently featured as a dog training specialist on network television, radio, and print media, including The New York Times, NBC, CBS, Animal Planet (Disney syndicate), FOX, CNN, WOR, Hollywood Pets, Parenthood magazine, and others. She has worked with many famous persons’ dogs, including TV personality Katie Couric, actors Richard Gere, Glenn Close, Chazz Palminteri, Chevy Chase, and Lucie Arnaz; business moguls George Soros, Tommy Hilfiger, Tommy Mottola, and Michael Fuchs; and sport greats Bobby Valentine and Alan Houston.

In addition, Sarah is a behavior consultant and education facilitator at the Adopt-A-Dog shelter in Armonk, New York, where she holds training and socialization programs, conditioning each of the dogs within a fully decorated home environment before their formal adoption. For more information on everything Sarah, visit her Web site at www.dogperfect.com.

Sarah also writes a weekly column and balances all with her top priorities: her family and pets!

 

Dedication

We dedicate our book to dogs . . . from all the ones we’ve loved, helped, and nurtured to the ones we look forward to knowing. You have filled our path with reason and given shape to our days and meaning to our life experience. Woof!

 

Authors’ Acknowledgments

There are so many people who deserve gratitude: Nancy Shalek for steering the boat, Kelly for your editorial efforts that grace every page, and Mike who spearheaded this project from the beginning.

And as always, our friends and family. . . . You are our sideline crew and support team. We would never — could never — be so delighted with our life if it weren’t for every one of you. Big hug!

 

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Contents

Title

Introduction

About This Book

Conventions Used in This Book

What You’re Not to Read

Foolish Assumptions

How This Book Is Organized

Icons Used in This Book

Where to Go from Here

Part I : The Fascinating World of Dogs

Chapter 1: A Dog for Life: Dog Psychology 101

Is Your Dog a Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing?

Age Influences

Influencing Your Dog’s Learning

Ain’t Misbehaving!

Chapter 2: Understanding Your Dog

How Dogs Came to Be Dogs

Behavioral Traits Bred in the Bone

Curing the Dog with an Overdeveloped Chasing Instinct

Understanding Your Dog’s Sex Life

Chapter 3: Communicating with Your Dog

An English to Doglish Translation

Seeing Eye to Eye

Interpreting Vocal Tones and Intonations

Making the Most of What You Say

Listen to Your Dog’s Voice

Reading Body Talk

Chapter 4: Seeing Life from Your Dog’s Perspective

Like Person, Like Dog (Similarities and Differences)

Your Dog Needs Affection

How Hierarchy Differs from Democracy

Reinforcing Good Manners

Part II : Embracing Your Dog’s Identity

Chapter 5: Identifying Your Dog’s Individuality

Identifying Your Dog’s Personality

The Puppy Personality Test

Evaluating Your Adult Dog

Chapter 6: Interpreting Your Dog’s Breed-Specific Traits

What Are Dog Breeds?

A New Breed of Dog Classification

Predicting Behavior from Breed

Chapter 7: Sensory Perceptions

Sight, Psychology, and Survival

Hearing the World

What a Dog’s Nose Knows

Chapter 8: Meeting the Needs of Your Growing Puppy

Creating a Lifelong Bond

Preventing Problems

Socializing Your Puppy

Chapter 9: Reading and Communicating as Your Dog Ages

Discovering Your Dog’s True Age

Battling an Aging Body

Diminishing Awareness

Remembering the Aging Mind

Part III : Doggie Delinquency

Chapter 10: Inspiring Behavior with Motivational Techniques

Choosing Training Tools and Gadgets

Using a Reward System

Tailoring Your Rewards to Your Dog’s Personality

Shaping Behaviors

Chapter 11: Helping Your Dog Learn from Everyday Living

Consistency Counts

Monitoring Human Behavior

Living with Kids and Dogs

Avoidance 101

Chapter 12: Happy Training, Happy Tails

I’m the Leader! Follow Me!

Teaching Impulse Control

Reconnection

Part IV : Dogs Don’t Misbehave: Misperceptions and Solutions

Chapter 13: Addressing and Solving Problem Behavior

Personal Philosophy and the Problem Dog

Denning Your Dog

Silencing Excessive Barking

Chewing

Putting a Damper on Jumping

Housetraining

Chapter 14: Countering Anxiety-Based Behavior

The Face of Fear

The Leaky Dog Syndrome

Curbing Separation Anxiety

Soothing Fears and Phobias

Chapter 15: Understanding and Resolving Aggressive Behavior

Recognizing the Signs

Factoring in Breed Traits

Ruling Out Medical Factors

Identifying Different Types of Aggression

Controlling Aggression

Preventing Aggression

Figuring Out Whether Neutering Helps

Part V : The Part of Tens

Chapter 16: Ten Forms of Silent Communication

Eye Contact

Body Posture

Touch

Your Demeanor

Unresponsiveness

Mirrored Motion

Looking at Your Dog Less

Hand Signals

Body Position

Lure Touching

Chapter 17: Ten Common Misunderstandings

Every Dog Wants to Be Leader of the Pack

A Wagging Tail Means a Happy and Friendly Dog

Dogs Understand Human Language

A Fearful Dog Won’t Bite

Dogs Know When They’ve Done Wrong

Dogs Sometimes Behave Out of Spite

Dogs Hate Cats

Dogs Like It When You Hug Them

Your Stress Has No Effect on Your Dog

Dogs’ Licks Are Kisses

Chapter 18: Ten Ways to Become Your Dog’s Leader

Control the Resources

Teach Your Dog to Mind Her Manners

Reserve High Places for Humans

Emphasize Your Right of Way

Use Time-Outs to Control Unruly Behavior

Empathize

Organize Space and Activities

Practice Full Body Handling

Restore Predictability

Highlight the Positive

: Further Reading

Introduction

P repare yourself for a journey into the mind of a dog! No matter where you start in this book, each page illuminates some facet of your dog’s life experience: from her unique personality, to how and why she either focuses on your directions or spirals into an independent cycle of what you may consider negative behavior. Though scientific information is the backbone of understanding your dog’s behavior, our book is a far cry from a boring read! Upbeat and cleverly written, it brings science into the mainstream, using language everyone can understand and relate to. When you walk away from this book, your dog’s behavior will no longer be a mystery — it will be common sense.

Another unique aspect of this book is that it seamlessly weaves two schools of thought together. Stanley Coren, a behavioral scientist who specializes in understanding how dogs think and act, meets Sarah Hodgson, a dog trainer who specializes in changing dog behaviors. Our union has been eye-opening for us, and we bring this magic to you. This book offers something unique: a dog’s-eye view of everything human. This book reveals how the grace and willingness of puppyhood can either be nurtured to encourage cooperative behavior patterns, or distorted, resulting in extreme reactiveness, destruction, housesoiling, and so on. Whereas Stanley explains a dog’s perception and experience, Sarah shows you how to use this knowledge to better your communication with your dog and immediately recognize a source of conflict or confusion.

Whether you’re picking up this book out of a simple love for dogs, a drive to understand and communicate with your dog with more insight, or a tested affection for a puppy that has matured in unpredicted ways, we guarantee you’ll not be let down. In addition to seeing the world from your dog’s perspective, you’ll develop an appreciation for her as you gather a toolbox of techniques to train your dog and/or repair misunderstandings. Be prepared to get hooked on everything dog, and above all else, enjoy the ride!

About This Book

Everyone envisions a great relationship with their dog, as though the outcome were guaranteed: Peaceful strolls, interactive play, calming feelings generated by a pet that brings harmony to family life and ails the angst of everyday life. If only it were as easy as wanting it to be so.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the prospect of getting a dog or queasy about your responsibility for the dog you’ve already committed to, you can relax. This book helps you recognize not only why your dog behaves in the way she does, but in the most positive way to encourage her cooperation.

Conventions Used in This Book

We stuck to the following conventions throughout the book:

bullet To avoid any gender bias, we refer to dogs as both males and females throughout the text. Except for anything that strictly relates to behaviors that are specifically male or female, you can be sure that the information applies to your puppy, regardless of gender.

bullet Anytime we introduce a new or scientific term, we italicize it.

bullet Keywords in lists appear in boldface. Also, when we present a list of steps to perform, the action you need to take is boldface as well.

bullet Web sites and e-mail addresses appear in monofont to help them stand out in the text.

What You’re Not to Read

Though we’ve weaved together insightful information throughout this book, you don’t need to scour each page to learn more about your dog. After all, who has the time to read a nearly 300-page book these days? Read one chapter at a time or use it as a reference throughout your dog’s life, knowing that every page you digest will enhance your overall understanding of him and thus improve your relationship.

Even as you read, you can skip bits if you’re pressed for time. Sidebars (gray boxes of text) include interesting, but non-essential information. The Technical Stuff and Just For Fun icons also contain insightful, but not necessarily crucial, facts.

Foolish Assumptions

Here’s what we assume about you, our dear readers:

bullet You know your dog has four paws and a tail, and you love her dearly.

bullet You either have a dog now, love dogs but don’t have one now, or are about to get a dog.

bullet You don’t want to get your PhD in animal behavior, but desperately want to know more about how your dog interprets life.

How This Book Is Organized

This book is divided into five parts, each one having its own insightful theme. Here’s a quick rundown.

Part I: The Fascinating World of Dogs

In this first part, you find out about your dog’s individual communication skills. Like teaching your language to a foreigner, we give you the tools to understand your dog’s behavior and translate your thoughts into Doglish, their natural language.

Part II: Embracing Your Dog’s Identity

Until you recognize that your dog, whether a mixed breed or purebred, has a distinct identity that makes her unique, her behavioral quirks can be puzzling — and, at times, frustrating. The first step in understanding your dog is to respect the honorable task she was originally bred for and to identify how these inbred impulses will influence her personality and behavior. We also address the dramatic influence of your dog’s sensory experience, as well as the emotional life and specific needs of a growing puppy. Finally, we discuss the psychological needs of an aging dog, from the emotional shock at her own physical and sensory decline, to diet supplements that may help to slow the degenerative process.

Part III: Doggie Delinquency

Let the training begin! This part starts out examining the many positive tools and techniques available to people who train dogs, highlighting systems that are both effective and encouraging. If your goal is to have a dog who not only listens to you, but enthusiastically chooses your direction over other impulses, the chapters in this part point the way.

Part IV: Dogs Don’t Misbehave: Misperceptions and Solutions

In this part, we target the array of frustrations most common to dog owners, from housetraining a puppy to rehabilitating a fearful or aggressive dog. Looking at each issue from your dog’s perspective, we help you see that what you may consider a problem is often a simple case of misunderstanding, lack of exercise, or manageable stress.

Part V: The Part of Tens

Last but not least, we gather together the top-ten lists of the most common misperceptions and ways to communicate silently. Enjoy!

Icons Used in This Book

Throughout this book, you find icons that appear on the left side of the page and that point out different types of information. Here’s a list of the various icons you may encounter:

Tip

This icon highlights useful tidbits and helpful advice.

Remember

These friendly reminders won’t let any of the important information slip by.

Warning(bomb)

“Warning, Warning!” Need we say more?

TechnicalStuff

This icon alerts you to facts and technical information that may not be essential, but they’re interesting to know all the same.

JustForFun

Take note of this icon. Though it may not contain crucial details, it does highlight a fun fact that’s good to know.

Where to Go from Here

The neatest thing about this book is that you can jump in anywhere. It’s a no-rules reference for anyone who is getting or sharing their life with a dog. Look to the table of contents, flip to the index, or simply shut your eyes and open to any page. You’ll find great topics to read about and new stuff to learn on every page.

Of course, this isn’t to say that you shouldn’t read our book cover to cover, but it’s not a prerequisite! No matter where you start, remember that, like children, your dog is a very unique and motivated being who, above all else, wants to be involved in your life experience.

Part I

The Fascinating World of Dogs

In this part . . .

Everyone who takes responsibility for a dog has a vision of how they’d like their dog to act: from polite to protective, from mellow to athletic, from interactive to aloof. The vision and reality, however, can sometimes differ measurably. Suddenly, an adorable puppy morphs into a maturing dog with thoughts of her own and mannerisms that may not line up with anyone’s expectations.

In this part, you grow to appreciate your dog as a unique individual, fully equipped by evolution and centuries of selective breeding with her own set of ideals and inner drives. This part gives you the understanding you need to enjoy, cope with, or change your life with your pet.